The first happening was a couple of weeks of my wife passing.
I awoke in the early hours of the morning, the room was slightly illuminated by a small light in the passage-way outside my bedroom, this was enough light to make me feel comfortable and also to recognise the items of furniture in the bedroom.
As I focussed on the chest of drawers on what was my wife’s side of the bed, I realised there was,” as I would describe it “, a “mass”, partly obscuring my view of the chest of drawers. I leaned forward to focus on it and it disappeared. This happened several times a week, at which times I can say that I kept perfectly still. I just lay there looking at it.
I can say that it only moved slightly and loosely resembled a body of a well built person sitting sideways on the side of the bed.